Erica
Can you recall a time or experience when you felt "unboxed", when you broke free from societal expectations or labels, seen for you and not your disability? (This could be related to a job, volunteering, living independently, attend college, etc...):
I feel unboxed when I volunteer at the Senior Center in Union City helping provide lunch to seniors four days a week. To do this, I schedule my transportation, purchase my bus tickets and ask for time off when needed. I even worked during Covid.
How did this experience of being "unboxed" make you feel?(Consider how it affected your self-esteem, sense of independence, and personal growth):
It makes me feel good, helpful, responsible and proud of myself.
In what ways do you feel you contribute to your own life and the community? (For example, through work, volunteering, hobbies, relationships, or other activities):
I contribute to my own life in many ways. I volunteer in my community. I love to play sports. In fact, I compete in basketball, track and field, and soccer. I help care for my grandmothers, and care for my dog Marley. I contribute at home by doing chores and making meals. Best of all, I love spending time with family and friends.
How did contributing in these ways impact your life? (Reflect on how it has shaped your identity, confidence, and interactions with others):
Joining Special Olympics at the age of 13 changed my life. It provided an opportunity to play sports and meet others that have become my best friends. It was then I began to really experience life like others do. Whether it was competing in sports, attending a school dance, or going to a birthday party. I also met my boss there who hired me to work at the Senior Center. He helped me gain the skills I needed to do my job. I'm forever grateful. It's because of all this that I feel unboxed!
Why do you think people with disabilities are often required to prove that they can contribute to society? (Share your thoughts on societal attitudes, expectations, and any personal experiences that relate to this):
People with disabilities are underestimated. Sometimes it's because we look a little different, talk a little slower or take a little longer to figure things out but don't let that fool you. We can do many things and often have hidden talents that would simply amaze you!
How does this expectation to continually prove oneself affect you personally? (Consider both positive and negative impacts, including any motivation it provides or frustration it causes):
It's hard to understand at times why I can't do all the things my brother can do or others without disabilities. Sometimes I wish I could drive and take off with my friends but I find ways to do the things I like.
What message would you like to share with the world about the contributions of people with disabilities? (This can be a message of advocacy, awareness, or inspiration):
Never underestimate a person with disabilities. They are strong, smart and fully capable of doing many wonderful things!